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LiquidEmotion | I'm a cancer woman and was being too clingy and overwhelmed him but before any intimacy I saw him as a good friend. We were talking for a little over a month. He stopped returning my texts and my calls for a week (I didn't send them repeatedly--no 100 texts a day or nonsense like that--and then I didn't try anymore). This was about two months ago. I did send one text two weeks ago saying that I didn't want to bother him and just told him that I missed him and hoped that he was doing all right. That was all. No response of course. We confided in each other and talked about everything. But the last week before he disappeared, he made some rude comments about him having only one partner....even though he said they weren't together and her threatening him with child support if he ever left. Some conflicting information, but he probably lied from the start. I know that I don't want anything more from him other than friendship. He has a lot of drama and at the moment, I'm too busy working on building my career. I've tried to move on but I have this longing to talk to him and say that I apologize for trying to push him into something he didn't want. I didn't want anything either in the beginning but I had just broken up with my boyfriend of 14 years as well other things that happened within the last year or so that has pushed me into a depression. And when I get depressed, I can't think straight and make stupid decisions and act like a loon. But I have had this urge to send him a thoughtful text telling him how sorry I am....or should I just forget it and move on. |
Jo B | Hi, don't be hard on yourself LiquidEmotion. We've all done things like this, sometimes when you're in the thick of it and not really thinking objectively and letting your feelings rule we try to accommodate another person's distant attitude - even blaming ourselves - but contacting him further will only delay him wanting to communicate with you. If I were you I'd just let him be and focus on yourself and your own life. If you guys are meant to be friends it will pan out that way in the end. Otherwise you sound like a nice, caring person and I'd say it's his loss. |
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LiquidEmotion | Thanks, both of you.http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/icons/icon1.gif |
lalalinda | Hello LiquidEmotion! Welcome to LL ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman |
SparklingSag | I feel of you too - My Pisces ex stopped replying too and then told me bluntly not to message and not to ask questions and he will tell me another time?! I have been dealing with the heartbreak and hurt but a month on, am feeling bit stronger and better Sparkling |
OnTheOtherHand | This happened to me too. We got to know each other for hours every day for a month then..poof..one day, out of the blue, no reply. Never heard from him again. I now look forward to meeting someone who is worth spending that time on..trouble is, pisces is my 7th house so find them hard to resist Be strong. X |
MineAgain | This happened to me too. It was my first real heartache. One day he was telling me he wouldn't ever let me go and he believed in love enough for the both of us and the next day (literally), he disappeared. I haven't heard from him since nor do I care to talk to him at this stage. It's been a year and a half and although I don't understand what caused his sudden disappearance, I know that when someone wants to be with you, you don't have to chase or ask yourself three zillion questions. It's crystal clear. If someone doesn't want you in their life, it's their loss. Keep moving, really. |
Sven555 | I hear that Pisces Men either want/obsess over you (A little different to a Scorpio Man) or they just 'Love' everyone, as Pisces is the last sign in the zodiac, it's a universal sign, 'we all must love each other regardless'. Unfortunately you must of not sparked his interest enough, so best to move on now. Good luck! quote: Originally posted by SparklingSag: I feel of you too - My Pisces ex stopped replying too and then told me bluntly not to message and not to ask questions and he will tell me another time?!I have been dealing with the heartbreak and hurt but a month on, am feeling bit stronger and better Sparkling
Oh my word! SparklingSag! Hello! |
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aleenaxo | I wonder if there are any Uranian/Aquarius influences. This sounds more Uranian for them to leave suddenly. |
OnTheOtherHand | quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: Okay.., you are all scaring me I am with a Pisces. He's my fiancé.. Uh. Doesn't anyone have GOOD Pisces man stories? I feel like I never hear them,....
It's a bit general to class it as 'because he's a pisces' everyone has a different chart with different influences and their upbringing etc will also count. It's like someone saying all men are dogs I don't believe that, even though I've met a few! Lol
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YellowGerbera | It's always amazing to read how Pisces men behaves... I'm a Pisces girl and I will never disappear like this from my significant other.. I have strong Uranus in my chart too.. I have it conjunct my Asc. I don't know why Pisces Men are so different..?
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